Visiting a new church or trying a new or different
religion can be make one uneasy or anxious. Here
is some information about what to expect when you visit
our congregation and hope we will make you feel
comfortable.
Come as You Are
When preparing to come to a service for the first
time, feel free to come as you are most comfortable.
Some people come each week dressed up and more formal,
while several others are quite casual. This "come as you
are" atmosphere extends beyond mere clothing and other
adornments. We welcome all seekers regardless of any
prior religious affiliation (or none as the case may
be).
Parking
Sunday mornings, you may park in the parking spaces
adjacent to the church or along the neighborhood streets (see
map and
directions). Parking is also available at the
West Lafayette High School.
Prior to the Service
Although the main service does not start until 10:30
am, many people arrive early for the
Sunday Morning
Forum that takes place prior to each service. If you
would like to attend a forum, plan to arrive by 9:00 am
and go to Room 101. Please consult
the Forum web page
or
newsletter for the topic to be discussed. The Sunday
Morning Forum concludes at 10:00 am.
One or more greeters will welcome you as you enter
the front door. You will be invited to make a name
tag. Informational pamphlets and other reading
materials about the church and Unitarianism are
available in the front entry way. The
greeters will talk to you and answer any questions you
might have and direct you to the sanctuary.
If you have children, you will be introduced to the
Religious Education Director and the children will be
shown their classrooms. Children under 5 can be
cared for in the nursery or classroom, and other
children participate in the first part of the service
with the whole congregation.
The Service
Gathering music plays as people gather and seat
themselves. The service begins at 10:30. All
are welcomed and visitors have an opportunity to
introduce themselves if they wish to.
Announcements are made. A child performs the
lighting of a chalice, the primary symbol of Unitarian
Universalism, while a reading takes place.
Everyone joins in singing a hymn and the recitation of
our Covenant.
There is a story for all ages, where children are
invited to come forward to participate. The
children leave for
religious
education classes as the congregation sings them
out.
The service is sometimes led by our minister, the
Reverend Hilary Krivchenia,
and sometimes led by lay people in the church. The
topic of sermons
vary widely. Check our
newsletter for the topics of this month's services.
Other activities that occur during services include:
singing hymns, special music, readings from the minister
and/or worship associates , receiving of an offering,
the sermon, children's story, and meditation, silent
reflection or prayer. Once a month, we also offer
space for recognizing the Joys and Concerns of our
members, friends, and visitors. People may light a
candle and share their joy or concern with the
congregation.
The service concludes with a hymn, closing words and
a musical postlude.
After the Service
Immediately after the service we gather in the
fellowship hall for coffee and conversation. Here we
encourage visitors to help others recognize you by
taking a colored cup, so that we may properly welcome
you. This is a time of lively conversation, sharing and
getting to know each other.
We encourage visitors to sign the visitor book at the
back of sanctuary and put an asterisk by their name if
they wish to receive mailings of our monthly newsletter.
Children are dismissed from their religious education
classes at 11:45 and most people leave by 12:15 pm.